It has takem me nearly five years of pondering to decide Zachary needed a grave marker next to ours. Without a grave marker, the future generations would have no way of knowing that he existed unless they were tracing the family tree and found his death certificate.
With his ashes at home in his room where I feel they belong, it left people without a place to visit him without visiting us in our home. Now, anyone can visit with him at any time they wish.
His urn will remain in his room to comfort me, but when I am gone his urn can be buried below mine. It is my understanding that scattering ashes is illegal; hypothetically speaking there could be some ashes that were sprinkled by his grave marker.
Before the flowers
Graceland Cemetery West
4814 White Horse Road
Greenville SC 29611